On RTE 1 right now, we have David McWilliams telling us that we are a bit stupid, investing in property and spending money like water and being out-competed by everybody and it is all going a bit Pete Tong.

On RTE 2 right now is the programme prosperity that is telling us that we are a nation of extremely unpleasant people.

Every letter to the Irish Times seems to take extreme pleasure in telling us that there is something wrong with us. even the GAA media came under fire last week, because it is wrong, it seems, to praise the Gaelic games and Gaelic players and for saying that they are good at something. That, unbelievably, was a published letter to the Times. Bad enough, I would have thought to be at such a loose end to write such a letter, but to have it published?

It is a completely right-on attitude now to praise the German Ambassador to Ireland and his comments (I think they were mis-translated in some respects anyway). Never mind the intent, it seems that it is good enough that the words were negative, so hurrah, we even have foreigners telling us how bad we are, so it must be true.

So, what the hell is so wrong with us? Are we really that bad? Are we that awful?

The sentiments of the commentators contrasts massively with the interview I heard on RTE Radio 1 over the weekend from a guy that immigrated to Ireland from Northern Iraq and who was granted asylum. His words were “I love Ireland with all my heart”. I know a small number of immigrants and without exception they tell me that they are doing well and enjoy living here. My next door neighbor when I lived in Dublin 15 was from west Africa, living in Ireland for 7 years and still loved it here. I’m sure there are exceptions - we hear about them on the news, but it seems almost taboo to highlight the success stories. Perhaps by doing so, we cannot beat up on ourselves as much.

I have to confess that I don’t think that my friends are anything like the Irish people portrayed by any of the TV programmes or the letters to the newspapers. I don’t find them crude, they are not obsessed by money, don’t talk obsessively about house prices, don’t talk down to immigrants.

I can’t speak for me, because I don’t observe myself from the outside, but I cannot see the country that is being described to me reflected in what I see in my friends.

What is the purpose of this negative portrayal? Am I supposed to self-flagellate and to wear sackcloth and ashes? I work hard and like a few pints. I don’t want a name like Bono Boomer or whatever and I don’t feel like I am particularly a bad person. So, why am I being told that I and my contemporaries are either stupid or mean?

Comments are welcome.